Weekly training
Warm up, move your body and wrestle with the club. Tuesday evenings, starting November 24.
The next chapter of PALÉ
Join the Seattle club or our digital community. This enrollment window applies to both memberships.
PALÉ · Seattle & online
Familiar faces.
Connection beyond a single event.
A private club and community for adult queer men, grounded in masculine expression, somatic embodiment and sexual empowerment.
Meet the community, get a feel for how we gather, and find your place in PALÉ. Join us in Seattle or connect from wherever you are.

The people beyond the mat
Shared practice. Real conversation.
Room for different ways of being.
PALÉ welcomes adult queer men, including trans men. Consent, clear boundaries and mutual respect guide how we come together.
The club is part of Modern Palaestra’s wider vision. Our own permanent gym remains a future ambition.
In person · Seattle
$50per month
Weekly warmups, calisthenics and nude wrestling bring us together on the mat. Private club dinners, shared practice and familiar faces turn that time together into a community.
Warm up, move your body and wrestle with the club. Tuesday evenings, starting November 24.
Time around the table with the people you meet through the club.
Shared training and practice led by trainers. Explore movement, embodiment and connection together.
Member benefits may include complimentary admission or discounted tickets. Details vary by event.
Stay connected in our private Discord, with a dedicated Seattle space for local members between gatherings.
All times Pacific. Each event will have its own details, booking information and member pricing.
Digital · Wherever you are
$10per month
A community you can be part of wherever you live. Meet other queer men, join clothing-optional digital gatherings and explore embodiment and connection through trainer-led online sessions.
Show up as you are. Spend time together, get to know familiar faces and make room for real conversation.
Join trainer-led sessions online, with space to learn, reflect and connect with the group.
Keep the conversation going between gatherings. Connect with other members around the club, our events and the community we’re building together.
All times Pacific. Members receive the details for each gathering.

For current members
Keep using your existing community channels. If you have questions about your current membership or need help finding your way back, speak with Ben through your existing conversation or book a call.
Ask Ben about membership or access (opens in a new tab)Seattle & digital memberships
Enrollment opens after November 14 and closes November 20. Get to know the community at an event, or talk with Ben about the membership that fits you.
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